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Alder tags: assuming, blaming, branding, communication, denying-feelings, dishonorable, facts, fear, gossiping, guessing, hurting-people, hypocrisy, ignoring, judgement, lack-of-communication, male-ego, not-caring, not-knowing, opinionated, overthinking, paranoia, saddness, truthfullness tags: anger, angry, angry-women, betrayed-women, controversy, enemies, exboyfriends, exgirlfriends, fake-christians, fools, hurt, insecure-women, insecurity, issues, jealous-women, low-self-esteem, mean-girls, men, motives, paranoia, trust, upset “Who's they? "Who, specifically, do you think is trying to murder you?""Every one of them," Yossarian told him."Every one of whom? ""I haven't any idea.""Then how do you know they aren't?First of all, your boss is a full fledged weenie manager.I realize that's not a technical term and you won't find it in any business book, but that's what he is. I'm going to tell you a secret here, you didn't get promoted last year because your boss didn't want to promote you.Now, it is also true that the reason is that at least your coworker is immature and couldn't handle it, but if it is only a problem with your coworker then your manager should have promoted you anyway and managed the coworker.Managing is difficult to do, so frequently people with manager titles avoid managing like the plague. Now, in an extra negative note, I wouldn't at all be surprised if neither one of you end up with a promotion at the end of this year.The excuse our Manager used for not promoting either of us was that there could only be one promotion and therefore it would not be forthcoming this year because if one was promoted the other would make too much fuss.Since that time this other employee has been determined to undermine me with our boss by finding fault with everything I do, even to point of saying I am not qualified for my job, lied about my number of overtime hours and quoted me as saying I thought he was an idiot. What can I do at this point to help save my job and bring attention to fact she is deliberately trying to get herself promoted by sabotaging me.
What's sadder is when they are Christian.” ― Shannon L.
You wouldn't have gotten promoted even if you had no coworker.
And your coworker wouldn't have gotten promoted last year even if you hadn't been around.
The second is: don't over-estimate your own merits. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing! Alder tags: alienating, bad-memories, blaming-others, broken-records, brutal-truth, bury, burying, dating, degrading-yourself, distancing, drowning-others, family, family-conflict, fights, find-joy, finding-focus, focus-on-positive, forget-it, forgive, friends, funeral-director, funny, give-it-up, happiness, hating-others, humor, hurting-others, issues, joyful-living, let-go, let-it-go, letting-go, life-coach, life-coaching, love-one-another, move-on, moving-on, obnoxious, over-thinking, paranoia, peace, relationships, rotted-corpse, siblings, staying-positive, stayingpositiveu-com “I told myself: 'I am surrounded by unknown things.' I imagined man without ears, suspecting the existence of sound as we suspect so many hidden mysteries, man noting acoustic phenomena whose nature and provenance he cannot determine.
The third is: don't expect others to take as much interest in you as you do yourself. And I grew afraid of everything around me – afraid of the air, afraid of the night. ” ― Guy de Maupassant, “True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years.